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FAQs About Child Support in Illinois
If you are an unmarried or soon-to-be-divorced parent of a child in Illinois, some of the questions that are at the top of your mind are surely who will be responsible for paying for child support, and how much will be owed each month. The child support attorneys at Fay & Farrow can help guide you through everything you need to know about child support payments in Illinois. In the interim, here are answers to a few FAQs about child support:
Which Parent Will Be Responsible for Making Child Support Payments?
Which parent will be responsible for making child support payments is one of the most commonly asked questions. Typically the parent who has a greater amount of parenting time with the children receives child support payments. In some circumstances, the payment of child support from one parent to the other may be reserved.
How Much Will I Have to Pay?
The parent with less parenting time is responsible for paying a minimum percentage of their net income to the other parent for child support. The percent that you will have to pay will increase for the number of children for which you are paying, i.e., you may have to pay 20 percent of your income for one child, but 28 percent of your income for two children. In situations where both parents have equal parenting time, both parents might pay the other the guideline percentage of child support, which may or may not cancel out any obligation to pay support directly to each other.
How Social Media Can Harm Your Marriage and Divorce
Social media seems innocuous enough – what is risky about keeping in touch with friends and family? A lot, apparently: studies show that there is a link between social media usage and decreased marital quality. And if marriage ends up in divorce, the things that you say to others on the web may be used against you, too.
The Connection Between Social Media and Divorce
The more that one spouse in the relationship uses social media, the more jealous or suspicious the other spouse may become, creating tension in the marriage. In fact, one study reports that as many as one in every seven people has stated that they have thought about divorce as a result of their partners’ online activity. The study, conducted by a UK law firm, also found that 17 percent of couples participating in the study argued about social media usage every day. If you want to reduce your chance of divorce, staying off of Facebook may be part of the answer.
It Is Divorce Season – Is Your Marriage in Jeopardy?
Now that the holidays are officially over, ‘tis the season for something else: divorce. In fact, the months following the New Year – namely January, February, and March – tend to see a surge in the number of divorce applications that are filed throughout the country. If you think that your marriage may be in jeopardy and divorce is on the horizon, take action quickly to protect yourself by reaching out to an experienced Naperville divorce attorney.
Why Do Divorce Filings Increase in the First Months of the Year?
There are a few reasons why January-March may be the most popular months for divorce. First, the holidays are over; family dinners, gift-giving, and putting on a smile for children in the home are all on hold until next year, providing the perfect opportunity for couples to part ways.
Second, it is possible that divorces surge around Valentine’s Day because the holiday spurs feelings of dissatisfaction within the relationship and brings to light a lack of romance. Adulterous spouses may also have trouble balancing the holiday between their spouse and their lover, bringing attention to an affair.
Stepparent Adoption and Fathers’ Rights in Illinois
It is not uncommon for the mother of a child and her spouse – who is not the child’s biological father – to raise the child together. What is less common, although certainly occurs, is when the stepparent of that child wants to adopt the child and raise the child as their own. When this occurs, the biological father may feel as though his rights are being intruded upon. The following considers stepparent adoption of a child in Illinois, what rights each party involved possesses, and why it is important to consult with an attorney.
Stepparent Adoption in Illinois
The stepparent of a child in Illinois may apply for the adoption of the child if the stepparent is married to the child’s biological parent. However, in order for the adoption to be valid, both biological parents of the child must consent to the adoption. This means that a stepfather cannot adopt a child unless the biological father waives his parental rights.
Fathers’ Rights to Custody (Allocation of Parental Responsibilities) of Children
In Illinois, child custody is now referred to as “allocation of parental responsibilities” and visitation is now referred to as “parenting time.” Mothers who give birth to children automatically have full parental rights over that child, including the right to allocation of parental responsibilities (formerly known as child custody). When the mother of the child is married to the child’s father, the father too is automatically granted parental rights. However, in the event that the mother and the father are not married, the father is only the “alleged” father. An alleged father has no legal rights, including no rights regarding child custody, or allocation of parental responsibilities. For this reason, it is essential that you establish paternity and hire an Illinois child custody lawyer.
Allocation of Parental Responsibilities (Custody) and Parenting Time (Visitation) When You Are Not Married to Your Child’s Mother
How a Prenuptial or Postnuptial Agreement Affects Divorce
If you are seeking a divorce and have a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement with your spouse, many issues that are common in a divorce, such as division of property, may be a moot point. This is because prenuptial and postnuptial agreements are designed to settle certain issues in divorce before they even arise. The following considers how a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement affects a divorce:
The Difference Between a Prenuptial and Postnuptial Agreement
A prenuptial agreement, also known as a premarital agreement, and a postnuptial agreement are not the same thing. A prenuptial agreement is a legally binding contract that is entered into by both parties in a marriage before the marriage actually occurs; a postnuptial agreement is a legally binding contract that is entered into both parties in a marriage after the parties are already married. Both can address the exact same issues, and both may be enforceable if a divorce occurs.
Important Steps to Take During a Divorce
A divorce is not only an emotional process, but an intense legal one as well. If you are considering getting a divorce or have filed for divorce in Illinois, there are number of important steps that you should take as soon as possible to protect your interests.
Make a List of All Assets
Make a list of all assets, including assets that are titled jointly, or individually in your name or your spouse’s name immediately. You should also make a list of all debts. Do you share a car loan or mortgage? Do you have joint investment accounts? It is a good idea to gather statements for every account in which you or your spouse have an interest, prior to discussing divorce with your spouse.
Protect Your Children
If you have children, they will be impacted by your divorce. It is important that you take action to protect your children, both psychologically and physically. Make sure your children are in a safe place and are receiving adequate care, and refrain from fighting with your spouse in front of your children or bad mouthing your spouse. Because allocation of parental responsibilities (formerly child custody) in Illinois is based on the best interests of the child, you should start putting a case together now that illustrates why you should be granted the allocation of parental responsibilities, including allocation for medical decision making, educational decision making, extra-curricular activity decision making, and religious decision making. You may consider asking your children’s teachers, professional adults in the child’s life, and others to write a letter or be prepared to offer a statement to a court about your parenting abilities.
The Basics of Child Support in Illinois
A parent may be ordered to pay child support in the event that he or she separates from the child’s other parent. The amount of child support ordered depends on income and, to some extent, the amount of parenting time (visitation) each parent has with their child. Because child support laws vary on a state-by-state basis, it is important to know what child support covers, who has an obligation to pay child support, and how child support is calculated in Illinois. If a person fails to pay his or her child support payment, he or she may face legal consequences as a direct result. If you need help understanding child support, do not hesitate to reach out to an attorney.
What Does Child Support Cover?
Child support is designed to cover all basic needs of a child. This includes needs such as food, clothing, and shelter. Further, both parents may be obligation to contribute to other expenses of the child including, but not limited to, educational expenses, day care expenses, extracurricular activity expenses, and out-of-pocked medical expenses. A child support order is a mandatory order.
5 Things to Do If a Divorce Is on the Horizon
Thinking about divorce is rarely a pleasant topic. However, if you believe that a divorce from your spouse is imminent, there are a few things that you should start doing immediately to prepare for the divorce and ensure that your rights are protected.
1. Make an Inventory of Marital Property
In Illinois, any property that is acquired during the course of your marriage is considered to be marital property. This means that the property will be subject to equitable division upon divorce. It you believe that a divorce is pending, it is best to make an inventory of all property that may be up for division. This includes a home, vehicles, jewelry, pets, furniture, and other items of value throughout the home.
2. Search for Hidden Assets
Knowing all of your spouse’s assets will be very important when it comes to things like getting a fair division of property settlement, spousal support payments, and child support. Unfortunately, some people will try to hide assets in a divorce to prevent a court from counting those assets when making a determination about the items above. If you are getting a divorce and your spouse has multiple assets, be sure to search for any assets that may be hidden. This may require a thorough investigation and review of receipts, investments, bank statements, credit cards, etc.
Can I Change My Child Support Obligation if I Lose My Job?
For parents who have been ordered by an Illinois court to make a child support payment, following the court order is absolutely necessary; failing to do so can result in your income being garnished, and you may even be held in contempt of court as a result, which can carry serious criminal penalties. Many parents, though, wonder what their rights are in the event that they lose their jobs. If you are unable to earn an income, are you therefore able to default on a payment, or have a court change your child support obligation?
The Penalties for Defaulting a Child Support Payment
Regardless of whether or not you lose your job, experience a change in income, or are otherwise financially unable to make your child support payment, your child support payment is due on time and in full per your court order. If you do not make your payment on time and in full, legal actions may be taken against you. These legal actions include, but are not limited to:




